What to do if you don’t know what to do.

ad lshort-page0001Endless waiting,dreaming, procrastination and information gathering was not enough. I waited too long too long to realize that the more I knew, the better I would be. That is true of course. But I’ll be getting better throughout my life and if we see it that way, I would never start. It is after that I learned from my mentor Sandeep Maheshwari that it doesn’t matter you know little but whatever you know, you have to apply it wholeheartedly. And this changed my life forever. And I now need to use my strengths to make my future as I dream of having it one day.

“What to do if you don’t know what to do?”

So I decided to help those who are stuck in life with no direction, without focus and without a clear purpose of what they want to do in their life. And hence I am launching my first personality development course. This course answers the main question for you. “What to do if you don’t know what to do?”

And readers, you are the average of five people you spend most time with. So don’t forget to spend time with the achievers in the GROW UP ACADEMY.

What happens whenyou start taking action.

take-actionInspirations, fire from within, passion, motivation are all okay. But what matters more is taking action because nothing happens unless you take action. No matter how much you visualize, it needs to be followed up by taking action. Because the real life problems appear only after we take action and it’s the fastest path to learn anything. But most people are afraid to take action because of fear of some unknown. I’ll tell you few things that might happen when you take action and if you feel such things, do not let it stop you because your next breakthrough is on the other side of that action.

When I saw an incredibly successful person delivering speech at an event, I decided to meet him. His contact details were open to all. His bio was available on facebook. And he was the person I was looking for. But the moment I got his phone number and the moment when I actually called him, went two weeks. These two weeks were full of doubts, overwhelming, laziness and procrastination. Finally, after two weeks, I decided to call him. And the moment I picked up my phone, my hands started trembling. I couldn’t call him. I again pushed myself in spite of that trembling and this time, I called him. He picked up the phone and talked in a very decent manner, appreciated my request and told me to contact after a week.

And I was all okay with that. The only thing that mattered was that I actually took action. I called him in spite of fear. And that is what matters my friend. Fear is not going to disappear; you have to make it disappear by taking action in spite of fear.

So if you are like me trying to contact or talk to someone, start some new business, try a new adventurous sport or making any bold decision in your life, remember that when you take action, following things will happen.

  • Your hands will tremble.
  • You’ll procrastinate for no reason.
  • You’ll aim for perfection even though it is okay.
  • Your heartbeat will increase.
  • You’ll doubt yourself for very silly reasons.

When the above things happen, DON’T STOP because these are the warning signs that you are on a right track. When you don’t let such obstacles stop you, you’ll emerge as an incredibly proud, victorious person.

Predict your future with this simple technique.

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Is it possible to predict anyone’s future from your daily habits? Have you ever heard of this crazy thing? Many have tried showing their hands to palmists and astrologers, the effects of stars and planets in our life but habits? How is that possible? If you are not aware how to predict your future from your habits, get ready to predict your future as by the end of this article, you’ll start believing that your habits shape your future more than anything else.

How habits are formed?

In simple language, habits are formed when behavior or experiences are repeated enough to create a lasting memory which then becomes a subconscious behavior. We then become comfortable with that behavior and the more comfortable we are, the easier it becomes to repeat that behavior and we love to repeat the easy tasks which we call habits. Slowly we become attached to our pleasant experiences and we don’t even know we are repeating those endless times without even thinking whether it is good for our future or not.

How can you predict your future from your habits?

Let’s imagine a successful person. What has made him successful? The guidance from the astrologer, his luck, knowledge or something else? Whatever he has done in his life to be successful is because of his hard work and guidance from others. And he got this support and love from people who made him successful was because he was trusted by them. What made him so trustworthy? Obviously, his behaviour and attitude. How did he develop this attitude? By working on his personality day in and day out. He developed his personality and gained knowledge about his industry every day. And to do anything worthwhile everyday consistently is not easy for anyone. He had to work hard on his habits. He developed successful habits. Habit of reading, habit of meeting new people, habit of asking for help, habit of trying new things, habit of failing, habit of exercising to stay fit. Because all these are prerequisites to become successful and you cannot become successful by doing these things once in a week or once in a month. You have to develop these habits every day, consistently with focus.

Imagine waking up each day and doing all the things you need to be successful on a daily basis. It does not take much for you to become confident enough to become successful because confidence is all we need.

If you want to become a writer, watching movies all day will not help you in any way, if you want to become a champion in any sport, sleeping whole day and gossiping won’t help you in any way. Decide what you want to do and act accordingly.

So stop watching TV, playing mindless video games or useless chatting. Instead, pick up a hobby, play a sport, read a book, watch an inspiring video or help someone and make it a habit because your habits will only predict your future. No one else will.

 

6 signs that you are already successful

May I ask you a question? Are you successful? What do you think of this? Let me guess. You might be thinking of whether you are successful or not or you may be creating an image in your mind about how it feels to be successful. There is good news for all of you who doubt themselves whether they are successful or not because the good news is that you already are successful.

Read my post in life hack which highlights the six major reasons why you are already successful. In brief, here are the main reasons.

  1. You have the time.
  2. You have the ability to think and learn.
  3. You have the resources.
  4. You don’t need money.
  5. You live in most modern society.
  6. You are reading this.